He's Just Not that into you

onday, May 18, 2009

Hes just not that into you.... Current mood: pretty I just saw the most awesome movie ever...He's Just Not that into You. Ladies, if you haven't seen it or heard of it....I advise, totally. It got me thinking about a lot of things...in regards to life, and relationships. So many time we catch ourselves up in this cat and mouse game called dating...and in actuality, none of it matters. If someone isn't diggin' you, then pack up your emotional baggage and get the fuck up on through. I have never been one to waste my time in places where nothing stands...yet, even i sometimes get overwhelmed in the mess. My opinion is this, there is always someone better behind the next curtain...always. Don't settle...it will leave you drained and disappointed. If you see the tell tale signs in the beginning, then don't expect things to change or get better- because they won't. People DON'T change, they just alter themselves as the situation calls for it. Still, always reverting to their original state. I have learned to be who I am and the rest will follow. I never find myself desolate in matters of the heart, and I never regret...I learn instead. I see so many of my friends that thrive on the drama that these so called men cause.... they never realize who they truly are in the single sense. There are all kinds of rules to dating....and most are total bullshit. Then, there is the exception...and that is how one knows that they have found their niche. When nothing is as it's never been, that's when you have struck gold. Until then, fuck em...I am going to have a blast being me. Whatever happens in between is just for shits and giggles anyway- no matter how important they think they might be. Lol. Boys...they are so much fun to play with